Transformation
10 Steps to Step into the World of Possibilities
October 25, 2009 by Lucy Papillon · Leave a Comment
1. Focus your attention on what you believe about your world now, at this moment. Ask yourself if YOU think you’re experiencing your family, work, environment, friends (everything with that world) as a place of “all things are possible here, it is exciting, open, challenging…” or “things are about like they have been for several years, some ups, some downs, mostly status quo.”
2. Next, be willing to take 100% responsibility for EVERYTHING that is happening in your world, whether you believe you are the “victim” of certain circumstances of not.
3. Begin immediately to do at least one action that is outside of your ordinary way of doing or being. In other words, be outrageous (not endangering yourself or others), just step outside of the limits you unknowingly have placed around your life.
4. As you do the above activity, make it uncommon, far out FOR YOU to consider and one which can benefit you in some way, like building a birdhouse when you’ve never picked up a hammer or driving over to a friend’s house and leaving a note (or flowers) on their doorstep. I imagine you’ve thought of a few by now. Don’t censor yourself, rather unlimit yourself.
5. Next, write a paragraph about how it felt to move beyond your “normal” way of thinking, acting, doing, and being. Write about what you imagined before doing your uncommon activity, and how you see yourself and your world now that you’ve accomplished the action. If you have really experimented with and been honest about the above steps, you are moving into the land of possibilities, a land where new vistas can be seen. The horizon of your particular life has just expanded and YOU did it.
6. Okay, now focus your attention on what you think a miracle is. I am guessing it is some form of “I’d like one but I don’t know how to have it occur” or “I don’t really believe in miracles.” Think of a time in your life where something extraordinary happened, something you didn’t think could occur AND it did. I know you have at least occurrence you can consider here. When you have one in mind, notice that the miracle happened in spite of your particular belief.
7. Other miracles can show up in your life now IF you consciously choose to look for them and you have shifted your perception of the “way things are,” “the way your world is set up,” to the impossible happening. For the next four days, take the time to be in the world of miracles (unlimited possibilities)/ They are happening around you right now but your perception and your beliefs keep you from noticing them.
8. After 4 days, it you haven’t yet seen and or experienced at least one miracle you are probably still in the land of skepticism. Open yourself to the unknown more. Stay tuned in to what is present right now in your world that you hadn’t paid attention to before this moment. At first, it may seem small or not even in the category of the miraculous. Look again. Expand your fenced-in notions of what a miracle, a possibility, an unlimiting thought would be. Remember, giving up the small area of the room you’ve lived in a lot of your life to explore a mansion with open doors everywhere is necessary for possibilities to enter. Begin walking out of the room towards the rest of the house immediately. This action means literally stepping out of what you know is comfortable, secure (and a little boring) to vast realms of adventurous, mystifying, but intriguing explorations.
9. Allow, allow, allow the old beliefs of what your world has been and must be to fade away and let in the newness, the glory, the ecstasy of that splendor you are beginning to unleash, to unimprison.
10. After all, what DO you want to do with you one wild and precious life??? Whatever it is, continue to know that, if you are having fun, playing this life intentionally but lightly, you can dwell in this world of possibilities. The reward is inherent in the process and this possibility world gives back to you the magic and wonder a child naturally creates.



Dr. Lucy
Papillon is a renowned speaker, author, and media psychologist. Dr. Papillon pulls from a variety of sources of how psychology and
Dr. Papillon was recently interviewed by Yahoo for an online article entitled Eliminating Negative Self Talk.



